Pelini - I am who I am

knapplc

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Nebraska's Bo Pelini: 'I'm real ... I am who I am'

Sipple wrote something about this article and pointed out this couple of paragraphs. I think I find them as interesting as Sipple:

The youngest of eight kids learned how to "do things the right way," which is camouflaged by his sometimes surly approach on the field and in interviews. Come talk to the people in Lincoln about how he treats them, he says. He promises positive results.

"The way the media wants to portray you, the way they want to exaggerate things -- let me tell you, I‘ve been coaching a long time and I've been around sports for a long time, anybody who walks onto the field when competition begins is different than they are off the field," Pelini said. "You're not like that all the time. I think people in this community and mainly around the state recognize that. They understand who I am and what I stand for and I live it every day. I'm not somebody who's going to go out there and put out a false front. That's who I am. I am who I am. I think people who really know me respect me for that. That's the way I believe it should be."

Something Bo's never going to be accused of is being fake. The man redefines, not always in a good way, "wearing your heart on your sleeve." Calling him fiery can be an understatement - at times. Mostly on the sideline, or in front of a podium.

But by the people in Lincoln, I wonder how Bo would be portrayed.

Personable? I don't think so.

Rude? Probably not.

Uncomfortable? That may be the best way of putting it.

I don't know of anyone who's ever spoken to Bo out in the mean streets of Lincoln who would call him rude. I've never had a conversation with him that I'd consider unfriendly. But it's pretty clear he's not a chit-chatty kinda guy, especially with folks he doesn't know. He's all business.

Maybe that comes from being the youngest brother. Kinda sounds like Youngstown boys were tough, had to be tough, and that may be where Bo gets it, the youngest brother thing.

EDIT - The reason Bo gets the Bo Camera treatment on the sidelines while other, equally sideline-intense coaches don't is the Bo Face. Kirk Ferentz may blow up at players and referees, Nick Saban, Urban Meyer might, too. But none of them have the Bo Face. That face is gold to TV execs. That's why it'll be on camera every time - it's a truly evocative picture, and that's what they love.

 
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Ummm..... you forgot the author's name in your title....
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Kinda sounds like Youngstown boys were tough, had to be tough
I never buy this part when it comes to the Pelinis. The late Anthony Pelini worked in pharmaceuticals...I highly doubt that the Pelini boys were being raised on the mean streets of Youngstown.

 
I think Bo's got a lot of admirable qualities and goes the extra mile to treat a *lot* of people the right way.

Everyone in Lincoln though?

I'm not sure he really wants to go down the road of, "Well, if you knew how I treated people in private, you'd think different."

Because we've already heard one private blow-up and that doesn't really seem like a one-off, totally out of character showing.

Bo doesn't need to apologize for his on-field behavior though (for the most part, and I mean lately). And the Bo Face, you nailed it, man!
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You know, I think Bo could turn this whole thing into a positive and take this in stride. For example, while he's on this charm offensive, how cool would it have been to say, "You know why they focus on me? 'Cause this mug." And pull a Bo Face. And crack a smile. Shoot, we'd love him forever.

 
I'm not sure I'd equate that two year old recording in the aftermath of a game and press conference of how Pelini treats people in private. He was still in full coach mode with the tape.

 
Did Bo even have any outbursts this year? I think the Iowa thing was the worst. He swung his ball cap. Big deal.

Seems like Pelini isn't nearly as bad with the outbursts as he was four or five years ago. It's mostly just the Bo face, like Knapp said.

 
I think Bo's got a lot of admirable qualities and goes the extra mile to treat a *lot* of people the right way.

Everyone in Lincoln though?

I'm not sure he really wants to go down the road of, "Well, if you knew how I treated people in private, you'd think different."

Because we've already heard one private blow-up and that doesn't really seem like a one-off, totally out of character showing.

Bo doesn't need to apologize for his on-field behavior though (for the most part, and I mean lately). And the Bo Face, you nailed it, man!
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You know, I think Bo could turn this whole thing into a positive and take this in stride. For example, while he's on this charm offensive, how cool would it have been to say, "You know why they focus on me? 'Cause this mug." And pull a Bo Face. And crack a smile. Shoot, we'd love him forever.
I found it interesting leading up to the Super Bowl that Bo talked about how much he learned from and looks up to Pete Carroll. One area where they could not be farther apart is media relations.

Where Carroll's first impulse is to smile, make a joke, and play the game, Bo's first impulse is to be defensive, angry, and to build walls. And it's not as though Bo is any more under the microscope: Carroll was coaching an elite program in the second-largest media market in the country.

Bo must think he has amazing instincts: He suspected everyone in the administration and media are out to get him, only to discover that that is mostly the case. What he doesn't realize is that he created the animosity in the first place.

 
Well Pete Carrol is in the news since his team is going to the Super Bowl. History show that they had coached together. Since there is no Nebraska team going to the Super Bowl ever, why not ask the Husker coach about his past with the guy taking the Seahawks to the big game.

No no, you're right, obviously it was Bo just trying to ride Pete's coattails.

 
Well Pete Carrol is in the news since his team is going to the Super Bowl. History show that they had coached together. Since there is no Nebraska team going to the Super Bowl ever, why not ask the Husker coach about his past with the guy taking the Seahawks to the big game.

No no, you're right, obviously it was Bo just trying to ride Pete's coattails.
WTH?! You completely missed the point of my post and, showing your insecurity, took it to a place I wasn't trying to go.

My point is that when I think of Bo Pelini the last person I would have guessed he would have looked up to/emulated is Pete Carroll. Bill Parcels, Bill Belichick, but not Pete Carroll. The two could not be any more different when it comes to media relations.

Try reading a post before you assume what the point is. I swear, more than half the stuff you Bo-lievers attribute to Bo-leavers is made up in your head.

 
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