Good. The program could use some culture change. We thought we had it with Bo and his talk about pointing the thumb, but that turned out to be codespeak for "always point the finger outside."
If a player doesn't want to be suspended, it's well within their power. If they don't want to be regarded as high maintenance, they should get with the program. If they want to start, they can keep working for it and not feel like they've got it already (though confidence is good, too, as the coaches said). Any candid, brief glimpse into a coach's meeting room is going to involve some frank evaluations of players and where they are at. If the fact that these coaches clearly care a great deal about all of their guys as people somehow gets lost on certain players -- there is no real evidence of this happening, but undoubtedly it will for some -- then no sympathy for them.
There's been enough "woe are we" around here and probably a shortage of everybody holding themselves and each other accountable.