I hear you. I actually don't care so much about nice. I am not saying he should be a flaming rear end about things, but I like he way Saban deals with things. He has created the Alabama way much like the Patriot way via Bill Belichick, who taught him how.
Take your craft serious, teach the boys life lessons along with football, demand discipline, do charity work for the community, don't embarrass the program or the college, tell the occasional joke, but don't be afraid to answer stupid media questions in a way that makes them know their question was stupid. I don't want a golly gee approach and know that would not be Frost's style anyway.