The heck?! How is that a bad thing to tell Gabbert? Being honest and saying "Do what you think is best for you" is the best thing a coaching staff can say. It's not their fault that they're in this situation.
Ummmm.... it IS the coaching staff's fault we're in this situation. This team has talent, that can't be denied. So why aren't they producing on the field? The coaches, obviously. There is something wrong with this program that is leading to this horrible performance on the field.
That said, instead of telling a kid to go find other options, they could try selling him on this college, the academics we offer, the city of Lincoln, the fans (who despite some boos and a couple of idiotic statements are STILL the best in the country), and the chance to play at Nebraska, where it really means something, rather than at a school with no tradition, a fan base so fickle they couldn't sell out their stadium if they were giving away free plane rides, and so few chances at a conference or national championship they may as well be playing Division II football.
I have yet to see one single bit of compelling evidence that anyone OTHER THAN the coaches are to blame for this horrendous season. If anyone has some, I'd love to see it.