Well I'm a father of 2 kids, one of which is 9 and has type 2 diabetes and the other being a teenager. I work 10 hours a day and come home and deal with teenager and diabetic problems, then after they go to bed I spend a few more hours getting motocross bikes ready for our 3 and 4 day weekends at the track so my son can try to make his dreams come true. That allows me to get a good 4 hours of sleep a night. Usually leaves me a couple of hours a week to play. Doesn't mean I can't have fun with it and try as many new games as possible. Obviously doing this I will never be considered a so called "GOD" of any one perticular game, but that's not what I play for. As far as having a life goes, I won't get into that cause you wouldn't understand. So I guess I would rather be the noob instead of the whole penis!
I'm the same way. I work my full time job 40 to 50 hours a week, go to school two nights a week, work a PT job at least one night a week, and have half custody of my son. Not really a whole lot of time to become a gaming god. But, when I do play, I have lots of fun, most of the time.