grandpasknee
All-Conference
Bo recently commented, and many agreed, that the players just don't seem to be having fun on the field. Watching the UCLA players do their little jig before kickoff aggrevated me, but it also was a glaring display of the difference between a team confident and having fun (UCLA) and a team afraid of failure to the point nothing about the game was fun anymore (NU).
Coincidentally, I noticed that very few of the fans in our immediate area were having fun either.
Finally, even fewer folks on HB seem to have any joy in just being Husker Fans and watching our young guys face off with the other team young guys. It seems we (I include myself) have made Husker Football too much a part of our personal identity. In referencing the team, most of us say "we". We make comments like being embarrassed, disgraced, etc....based on how the team and the coaches perform.
For me, this is a wake up call to refocus my identity on my life, and not on a team. I will forever love the Huskers, cheer for the Huskers and go to see the Huskers every chance I get. But I won't let the results on the field dictate how I feel about my life or my self worth. And I will have fun again just being a fan of those boys that line up every Saturday.
Coincidentally, I noticed that very few of the fans in our immediate area were having fun either.
Finally, even fewer folks on HB seem to have any joy in just being Husker Fans and watching our young guys face off with the other team young guys. It seems we (I include myself) have made Husker Football too much a part of our personal identity. In referencing the team, most of us say "we". We make comments like being embarrassed, disgraced, etc....based on how the team and the coaches perform.
For me, this is a wake up call to refocus my identity on my life, and not on a team. I will forever love the Huskers, cheer for the Huskers and go to see the Huskers every chance I get. But I won't let the results on the field dictate how I feel about my life or my self worth. And I will have fun again just being a fan of those boys that line up every Saturday.