Nobody's blaming Urban for Hernandez murdering people, that's not what all the hate is about. It's a character thing. It would appear that Urban's focus isn't on molding these guys in to respectable young men but getting those trophies and championships.
And that is different from whom in the college football profession? Bob Stoops? Nick Saban? Frank Beamer?
He doesn't seem to get to much credit for "molding" Tim Tebow. Tim and his parents usually get the praise.
Bo Pelini, for one.
I don't think he should get credit for molding Tebow. Tebow was the person he was before he got to Florida, and stayed the same person after. If anything, he should get credit for the supposed media accounts of how he changed Meyer's life and encouraged him to go on a mission trip.
I don't know much about Bo Pelini outside of him and me graduating from the same University so I can't speak for him. He could be the greatest Saint in college football. Regardless, I missed where most Division I coaches are batting 1.000 or are the only figure in their lives.
He is an important figure but most definitely not the only one.
Thats my point with Tebow. He was set up for success by himself and his parents. 17 year olds don't get things figured out. Timmy learned a lot after school and before school and Meyer shouldn't get the all of the praise.