^ good points by both of you, but generally points disagreed on by people who live in and love major urban areas.
Out of curiosity, in your opinion, what are the major advantages of huge cities like Chicago or Atlanta compared to smaller ones like Lincoln?
Some of it is tangible, a lot of it isn't.
Any given night I can find a new dive bar, park, improv show, rock concert, museum, meetup group, skyline view, dance class, yoga studio, night club, volunteering opportunity, or whatever that I've never experienced before - even if I've experienced a dozen of the same sort of thing. All of my favorite bands are much more likely to come here, there's literally millions more fish in the sea to choose from when it comes to romance, I have my pre-conceptions constantly challenged by interacting with people that look/talk/act/think/live differently than I do, etc. It's really a never ending opportunity of discovery just placed at your fingertips. It's definitely not for everyone, but for someone who spent their entire life feeling like I was on the fringe or the outskirts of wherever I belonged in these small, mostly homogenous communities, it feels like a breath of fresh air in my lungs.