Be not troubled, friend. It's not you, it's the general way we talk down about...say, soap, etc. Things we have no interest in. And the *contrasting* , much more nuanced and much less begrudging way we talk about other things we have no interest in, like wrestling. Like, there's obvious differences in how this goes:
"You may think wrestling is stupid but you have to admit wrestlers are really talented, not just in wrestling but also in other areas, and now let's extol all their admirable qualities
in contrast to the soap actors, whom we can agree are the ones that have no talent. I mean, fine,
obviously they do have some talent, but you know."
We can make the "in fairness, I really appreciate ____ for ____" case without simultaneously making a putdown that both isn't merited and which we don't even seriously mean. All I'm saying. It's unrelated to all your wrestler talk, but this is my unpopular little hill to die on here.
@RedDenver, hey, that's another good one! I mean, I think we should just accept that we're all nerds. D&D nerds. Fantasy sports nerds. Following real sports teams nerds. Wrestling nerds. Soap nerds. Anime nerds. Gun nerds? It's all good. We have our things that we're really into and they're different. The sports/war related ones are not any better than, I dunno, cartoon or comics or romance movies based ones.
I was really into fantasy for a while, but I've found life much better without it. There was a time when I could tell you the names of about 30 starting RBs in the NFL. And a good number of their backups.