yeah, I see your point as well. From everything I've seen Lane do at Tenn, I'm not a big fan of the guy, just in general, wherever he goes. All the recruiting and PR stunts, etc.
But I don't see this job switch as one of the symptoms of that. I think it's completely okay to be selfish when it comes to your career. You got to do the best thing for you, and if another opportunity comes up, you take it - and both sides realize and understand that this is a possibility. That's why these contracts are rarely actually binding - they just offer financial incentives to not go certain options. It's not quite the same 'commitment' as say, a legal contract, marriage, military, or even a football player committing to a school.
I think most of us, in our careers, if a can't-miss opportunity came up that would be best for us, we'd all take it.
That said, it doesn't change my mostly negative impression of Kiffin and head-shaking at how HS kids can love him so much.