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I have tried typing this three times so forgive me if it shows here more than once.That is pretty common on a recruiting trip. Not really the 3 way but hooking up with girls is. Part of the trip is a job interview, like when you are with the coaches and the team. The other part of the trip is hanging with your host player and experiencing a night of what it is like to be a college football player. Usually involves drinking and partying. Not alwaysI read the report this morning in full - recruit and victim names are stricken, but honestly it smells real bad. She "thinks" her initial threesome was consensual, and there is video of it but the entire situation is a cluster. Id be totally ok with walking away from this kid. At best it was as a real bad decision - and yes I know he is 18, and all of you will hit back with "what 18 year old wouldn't jump into a threesome" - but thats the question Id ask you. If you were on a recruiting trip, which is essentially an interview - do you hop into a 3 way? Would you really ever join ( if you are being honest and not trying to impress your HB biudies)?
I worked in recruiting for some years and am very aware that there are typically evening activites. It doesnt change my opinion that this incident was significantly different.
I also know that the hosting players are givien pretty strict guidance from the coaches and admin about staying out of trouble. Obviously his host didn't do that, but it doesnt excuse his decision. Taping it? Stupid.