The big city/ small town debate will go on forever. My brother lives in Camarillo, CA which is north of LALA land. My sister in law would never think of living in a small town having grown up in the metro Omaha area. She thinks it would be boring with nothing to do. The funny thing is, when ever we go visit we really don't do anything that exciting. I think its just the thought of not being able to go get a Café Latte at 2:00 AM if she wants that she is worried about.