irieboy8
Banned
you dont want to knock mom too hard... she has her reasons but i agree that she should let her son follow his heart... it sounds selfish in a way to say that because it might favor coming to us... but if it his desire to come here i think his mom should support himI totally agreethis is the point in the recruitment process that mom needs to just tell him "follow your heart, i'll support you"... this is a tough enough decision even without trying to make your family happy. i know he wants to make her happy/stay close to her, but at some point you have to do whats right for you, esp. when it revolves around your future.
i think since she is from africa or what not communtiy is very important to her... but is having as super tight nigerian community that important to Owa???
i guess what i am thinking is mom might be coming from one place while owa is coming from another where a lot of these things are important but not as important to him as there are to his mom.... after all he was born in the US...... sooooooo