Here is a little snippet from NU Team Psychologist Dr. Jack Stark. This one really hit home for me and helped to put some things into perspective:
"Q: Can you give me an idea of the pressures these young men were going through?
JS: Well, the biggest pressure, too, is that some of these kids come from homes that have nothing. And they know if they can make it through and get drafted and have a shot at it, it’s just huge. Financially, identity-wise, the dedication of everything they’ve done since they were 6-7 years of age, if they don’t make it? It’s just crushing to them. So I always tried to have them make sure to have a dream, a backup plan. If they played pro ball, great, but if it didn’t happen they could always go on to something else.
Q: Did the players read the papers much? It’s easy to say that they don’t, but are they affected much by what they read?
JS: Well, they read the internet and blogs and everything else. And you try not to let it, but it impacts them. Some of those people are crazy, it’s crazy what you see online these days.
Q: What advice would you give those fans? Any positive, constructive advice from the Good Doctor?
JS: Well, I’d just remind them to remember what it’s like to be 18, 19, or 20 years old. You know, if you’re forty that’s one thing, but if you’re a young man and you’re trying and you make mistakes, some people say an awful lot of things that create a lot of stress, a lot of hurt."