schriznoeder
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This country is in the toilet. Elections are a sham and no change or shift in power does any good for any of us.
I work 50hrs a week at an elevator and my wife works around 40 as a Coordinator at an assisted living home. Combined we make well under 90k a year. To do this, we have to send our 3 children to daycare 4 days a week which costs around $1,500 a month. Her work pays 90% of her health insurance, mine covers my entire portion plus a little bonus towards our HSA account. Her bi weekly paychecks are gone after daycare and the remaining insurance costs which leaves my income to cover all the other stuff like mortgage, utilities, debt stuff and other cost of living.
Meanwhile, a girl she works with has a lazy fat a$$ of a husband who "can not work". They both receive enough government funding to buy new vehicles, new clothes all the time, eat out every day etc.
I've had it. This morning my wife tells me it looks like insurance will go up next year. So I flat out told her there is no effing reason for her to work and us to barely scrape by. Her staying home would not only qualify us for Medicaid but we would also be eligible for fun stuff like WIC and Home Improvement Grant's and daycare costs even though she would be home. This is bulls#!t. How is this even remotely fair? How are we still rewarding laziness and punishing everyone willing to work. We may as well reap some of the funds we have been paying in for years should we not?! This isn't a red thing or a blue thing. It's a red and blue too busy fighting each other and we all play along for anything to actually change thing.
I'm not even remotely exaggerating. They got some big government kick back and bought new vehicles, clothes etc. Blew completely through it and put none of it towards any actual debt or into savings because that's what people like this do. Assistance punishes the working people more and more while making it more and more affordable to not work and more and more enticing to make zero effort towards working. Eventually, where the hell is the money going to come from?
So are these people making more on government assistance than you and your wife?Assistance punishes the working people more and more while making it more and more affordable to not work and more and more enticing to make zero effort towards working. Eventually, where the hell is the money going to come from?
But if you think people aren't taking advantage of it you're turning a blind eye to it.
Okay, so because daycare and healthcare are so expensive and it would be more affordable for my wife to NOT work, how does that make sense? Why is that okay?