Guy Chamberlin
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One thing that I haven't seen mentioned in this thread to this point, is just how bad people are at managing/allocating their money. My wife has worked in the the banking/financial world as long as we've been married, and she has always said how staggering it is. And it's not just poor people of course, but they are the one's more immediately impacted by those poor financial decisions. You can be both poor, and personally responsible for your financial situation. Wealth redistribution, and tax reform aren't going to correct those habits.
The 2008 financial debacle had plenty of blame to go around, but not much was laid at the feet of the people who bought homes they couldn't afford.
We are the worst nation at saving money in the world, and I'm amazed how many people with middle-class salaries go deep in debt and live paycheck to paycheck.
We bought a house in 1999, and our mortgage broker informed us we could have afforded much more house. I told him no, no we couldn't. The house we were buying was actually a stretch and anything more was out of our comfort zone. He explained that we had more than four months of mortgage payments in the bank, and that alone qualified us to buy a more expensive house. I explained that a four month "cushion" could evaporate in.....well, four months. The house he told us we could afford would also have left us with very skimpy discretional income. He also encouraged us to take out the much less expensive 5 or 7 year ARM, saying that people think they're going to stay in their house for a long time, but usually sell before 7 years, so it would be crazy not to get the 7 year ARM and refinance later.
We went with the house we could afford and the 30 year fixed mortgage. It was a hard sell to spend more and I wondered if I was being too cautious and midwestern. At the time I said to my wife: "what happens if all these people are buying houses they can't afford, and all the 7 year ARMS run out at the same time?"