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After all we all know men can't get raped.
Where is the evidence that people think this way?
After all we all know men can't get raped.
So any person who makes an accusation is to be believed, period? Because that's a really, really bad policy.
Should probably report those posts, then.
So any person who makes an accusation is to be believed, period? Because that's a really, really bad policy.
I figured with the number of Mods weighing in, one of them would have taken action. Maybe they have.
Here's oneI have heard the video is a 10 second clip of her giving some kid a BJ. It doesn’t seem assault like to me
I think it is okay to believe a person when they claim something like this. But then the FACTS need to be investigated to either prove or disprove.
Here's anotherMy thoughts exactly. She is the one with the power in that situation.
Interestingly, I feel like this could be applied to any number of criminal proceedings. "Mugshot" galleries are a pretty good example of what I'm on about. The Journal Star has been a big fan of sharing those for years, I imagine largely because it drives a lot of page views.Personally, I don't think the accused should be named in rape cases until they go to trial.
Knapp, that's certainly not what I said. Additionally, you clearly didn't read what I put out there.
Yes, there are false allegations. However, those numbers are extremely low with the most generous of numbers putting it at 5% of reported rapes which are thought to be (generously again) at 17% of all rapes.
But I will say it here. Yes people should be believed and yes people should be given due process. And yes, we as a society are awful about blaming the victim in rape situations. And yes, we will get it wrong once in awhile, the same way we do with any other crime.
This isn't how the world works, there's no evidence this is how the world works. None of the literature supports this notion. In fact, the literature says that the reason people don't report rape is for exactly what has been going on in this thread. People are arguing about semantics, questioning if she just wants to save face or not, saying that oral sex can't be forced. We are all the problem here and we use it as further justification to discredit the victim.
Wait...are you saying that you don't think people have had sex, regretted that sex and then made up an excuse as to why that sex happened?First, thank you for framing this as an opinion.
No.
Just no.
This isn't how the world works, there's no evidence this is how the world works. None of the literature supports this notion. In fact, the literature says that the reason people don't report rape is for exactly what has been going on in this thread. People are arguing about semantics, questioning if she just wants to save face or not, saying that oral sex can't be forced. We are all the problem here and we use it as further justification to discredit the victim.
https://link.springer.com/content/pdf/10.1007/BF00160012.pdf - legal journal
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1077801210387749 - psych journal probably the best article to read.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1077801216630147 - psych journal
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1077801213487044 - psych journal
https://xyonline.net/content/false-allegations-sexual-assault-and-domestic-violence - less scientific but a decent summary.
I'm embarrassed by this thread. It's not a good look for us. Even more so, that the nature of the crime as it's relevant to Nebraska football has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE SEX. It has to do with the video and sharing the video.
I didn't say they ALL spoke up immediately. Some sure did. The horror is that they weren't listened to, or were shut down.
Interesting that there are some posters in here doing the same thing to the girl in this situation. Some even suggesting that SHE was in control of the situation.
Here's one
Here's another
Both parties should be treated equally. But if someone claims assault, then the cops investigate an assault. And then go where the evidence and facts lead them. But in no way could a cop do their job effectively if they immediately didn't believe a claim. They wouldn't put the effort into proving or disprovingI feel like both parties should be treated equally. The alleged victim could be right or making false accusations. The alleged victim deserves no special privileges, but does deserve a safe space to make their accusation.
In the same way, the alleged perpetrator deserves a safe space before all the facts are in. Personally, I don't think the accused should be named in rape cases until they go to trial.
I feel like both parties should be treated equally. The alleged victim could be right or making false accusations. The alleged victim deserves no special privileges, but does deserve a safe space to make their accusation.
In the same way, the alleged perpetrator deserves a safe space before all the facts are in. Personally, I don't think the accused should be named in rape cases until they go to trial.