Maybe we should put this in perspective:
Do you suppose Geno Smith would rather have had his college coach tell the press that Geno has a little bit of an attitude problem or wait for this guy to tell him:
Which would have been better in the long run?
The better question is not would, but should the press be told, in my opinion. I keep going back and forth on this. In one hand, it's valuable to know a player's personality because it can open a door into why they may be performing a certain way and what kind of human being they are.
In the other hand,
it's not very fair for thousands of people who don't personally know him to judge him if he hasn't really done anything wrong. In conjunction, it's more of a coach's problem then it is for the fans. What can we do about a personality problem? Nothing.
Again, I can see arguments for both sides here but I personally have always leaned towards the side of letting more things say behind closed doors. I know fans, especially football fans, crave any piece of info. they can get. But, sometimes, I think we'd all be a lot happier if we just took our foot of the gas and just chilled out.
Bolded 1: I have no problem with it when names aren't given.
Bolded 2: Thats on the thousands who are judging him. IF they are really that concerned about it that they have to judge who he is as a person rather than take the info and just move on. Then they are the problem. Why do we have to point the finger at the coaches for lettling the information out because we can't handle it? LOL. Every time I turn I see people complaining. It's always about someone else rather than realizing we're dumbasses for how we react to the info.
Bolded 3: I agree, I am the same way but I lean a little more the other way.
For the record, maybe the trust factor with the reporter was just a little too strong....?
But, do you have a problem with it if people figure out who it is using process of elimination? We already know the player sub-group (freshman linebacker), and going off of recruit interviews, even I have a good idea who it might be. Damon Benning intimated he may know who it is, and I bet most of the media do, too. If I tell you a new head coach in the B1G is high maintenance and may never take another HC job again, I may not have told you who I'm talking about, but you'll have a pretty good idea.
I do completely agree with you that it's on the thousands of people who are judging him and their choice of reaction, but, if you put a piece of fresh meat in front of a lion, the lion is going to pounce on it. It's in it's nature, and as much I dislike the incessant need people have for info. on the Huskers (or any sports team), I also think media have become far more open about what they're reporting. And again, this is just my opinion, but this is one of those things where the journalist probably should've showed a little better judgement and kept that part out. I just don't see the value of said information at all right now.
And I think the trust factor was pretty strong, to a fault. For a coaching staff to sit and openly talk about suspensions with a reporter in the room is bold, especially if those two haven't agreed upon a release date for the article, which they either didn't discuss or miscommunicated on. I think we can all agree that's not the best format for finding out about suspensions.