Grandpa’s place – what memories come to mind. There are so many that want to be expressed first.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Ah, Grandpa’s place is the smell of fried potatoes, eggs, and bacon in the morning, Grandma’s loving duty and Grandpa’s daily need – don’t forget the ketchup on those eggs.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place is the great fire – lightning hit the house at night and Grandpa telling Grandma, “Don’t panic” as he puts his pants on backwards “where is the zipper, ma?”. It is Grandpa backing out the garage at 50mph to call the fireman, forgetting the old Plymouth was in his direct line – CRASH! It was a night when Grandma gave new meaning to indecision; hauling the furniture out into the rain so it wouldn’t get burned and then hauling the furniture back in “It will just get ruined by the rain out there.” she said. Thankfully this was a night when Grandpa’s place would keep standing.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was a fun place where the local cousins could get together with the far away cousins. It was wrestling or basketball in the hay loft – The Locals (Ron, Mike, Dan) against – The Far A-ways (Steve, Terry, Todd) I think The Locals always won.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]It was a place where Grandpa tried to get Mike and Terry to explain, “How did that B-B break the Plymouth’s window? It bounced off of how many buildings first?”
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was pushing someone in the big wheel pushcart or riding on the bedspring while Grandpa smoothed out the drive or exploring the grove of trees and looking at that old farm equipment. It was getting to herd the sheep back to the barn with the little Ford tractor.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was work, too. It was listening to Grandpa telling the story about Uncle Denny wanting to build up his muscles, so Grandpa sent him to clean out the sheep barn. “Oh, he looked so whipped at the end of the day” Grandpa would say. Grandpa’s place is knowing the same feeling one day, as I, too would be sent forth with pitch fork in hand to do battle with the sheep barn only to become another victim of its power. It was watching the Canadian geese circle down into the lake near his farm while we were “harvesting” the rocks off of the fields before spring planting. Grandpa’s place was hearing Grandpa criticize those city boys because they cut weeds too high in the soybean fields. Us kids knew how to cut those weeds – low down. We had plenty of practice. They didn’t call Grandpa’s place the c$%k-a-bur farm for nothing.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was a vacation for us kids and a relief for Mom, as we would spend many nights over at Grandpa’s Place during the summer. It was listening to the wind going through the trees at night and wondering if that was really “just the wind”. It was going to town with Grandpa and following him in the café like ducks and holding our chests out big as Grandpa would proudly introduce us all to his card playing buddies. It was picking apples with Grandma and being told for the millionth time to “get down from that windmill”. Grandpa’s place was jumping and swinging on the bedspring swing and hoping you would never get hit by that lethal weapon if you fell off.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was wondering if Uncle Billy would become famous like the Beach Boys as he and his group would practice their form of 60’s music in the barn. It was also wondering why Grandpa painted the farmhouse a bright blue color. You could see it for miles and I don’t think Grandma ever forgave him for that deed.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was Trixy and Pal – two of the most faithful dogs on this earth. It was a dirt floor workshop in the garage where Grandpa turned out toy barns, deacon’s benches, windmills and the like. It was straightening bent nails and digging through the dusty nut and bolt box. Grandpa would save everything – “We may need those nails and bolts some day” he would say. Grandpa lived through the depression and he knew the value of a straightened nail or a saved bolt. It was working with Dad, Mike, and Danny in the fields or going to get a pop from 6’8” “Tiny” at the gas station or visiting Pumpkin Center or Rumpus Ridge to get a bag of feed for the sheep. Grandpa’s place was watching a dark cloud of hail destroy the corn on our farm 15 miles away near Parker, S.D. and knowing it will have to be next year.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place is memories, especially the memory of sitting down with Grandpa by the grainery as we waited for Mike or Dad to bring in another load of oats. It was Grandpa remembering all of the changes he has seen in his life – airplanes, radio, TV, and a man on the moon. He drove on a dirt road to the Black Hills and then Hwy 16 and then I-90. Two World Wars, Korea and Vietnam, the place where Uncle Billy had to go. A depression and after the war a boom. He was the next generation, then he raised the next one which then gave birth to my generation – we will carry on his heritage through our children.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was walking through the farm one last time after Grandma’s funeral and before Grandpa had to sell the place he and Grandma had lived for nearly 50 years. It was taking pictures of the hay loft where I played, the barn where I worked, and the farmhouse where I was loved. The pictures, I thought, would help Grandpa’s place to live on. I have found that it is the memories, those wonderful, living memories, which make Grandpa’s place live on - not the pictures.
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[SIZE=11pt] [/SIZE]Grandpa’s place was a place full of faith. Grandpa and Grandma were in church whenever the doors were open. Grandpa ushered and took care of the church grounds among other things. Their faith was a quiet faith demonstrated by their genuine care for others. Grandpa’s place was most of all love. It is the legacy that he and Grandma have left us. Grandpa’s place will always remain; for Grandpa’s place is Grandpa, it is Grandma, and it is love – and love will never pass away.