Exactly what I was trying to get accross. TV watches Bo continously since the situation with VaTech. Most only see that, meaning most other fans, that may not be as dedicated as this group. My wife witnessed the blow up first hand and then saw the ATM fiasco. That was it for her. Her feelings is it is not something you turn off and on. It is a way of life, a response, and she feels the kids see it every day. Her thoughts when asked about it is. That the kids are subjected to his temper on daily basis. Two things can happen, rebellion or ignore it. Some will react the opposites of others. The players develop a fear/or a they develop their own anger with how they are treated. She says they play out of control because their leader is out of control, not focussed on the main job. Because the fear the repercussions from their mistakes, they play slow or have concnetration lapses. Some may rebel, IE in the dog house, never to return. Her thoughts are he runs the program like a Bully, with the kids knowing he controls their future, and keep silent no matter the cost. A lot like a battered wife syndrome I guess.
I hope she is wrong on her thoughts, but it is obvious she is not the only one thinking this way. It is coming up more and more.
None of us know what goes on in the inner circle, and I think Bo keeps a tight lid on any situation that would cause concern. He is that way about pretty much everything it seems.
Because my other half thinks it so, doe not make it true.
But because most of you think it is one way, does not make it ture either.
We know he has anger control issues, we know he has been counciled numerous times on it, these are facts.