BigRedBuster
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You can add that. The problem is, society is stuck with dealing with it. Somehow, society has to help those kids break through that mess they have at home so they don't grow up to have the same type of home.Add in to the first part of just being a lazy a$$ and relying on social welfare to the equation for a portion of those people.
I really feel heartache for the kids caught in both situations and feel for the parents in the second situation. More safe community centers, mentor programs, child care when needed are all good places to put resources IMO.
BTW…the lazy a$$ equation isn’t just for the inner city. I saw a lot of that in the “white trash” population growing up in western Kansas where people were very content living off the public dime and moving from odd job to odd job while not giving two tips about their kids were out doing (or not doing in school). A portion of those kids turned out how you would expect them too. Others who had good outside influences on them decided their parents lives weren’t what they wanted for their future and did well for themselves.
My daughters had a major wakeup call to all of this. They were lifeguards at the local pool in HS. As usual, every summer there's a group of kids that they see every day (affectionately called pool rats). Wide range of kids. But, some come from very poor families where the pool ends up being their summer child care. One day, my daughter was talking to one of these kids and told him it's time for him to go home for supper. The kid, without skipping a beat, says "Naaa....it's my brother's turn to eat tonight." My daughters were absolutely heart broken. So, they started stocking the pool fridge with stuff for peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. They got to know the certain kids that needed them.
One of my more proud moments as a parent. But, imagine now in a community where a kid like that, first....doesn't have a place like the pool to go hang out. Second, doesn't have people who care. And third, instead they have the local gang waiting on the corner with the peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.
That's where society needs to play a major part.