There is no disagreement about Coach Frost's desire to find success. The question is whether he actually will make us competitive again. Following 3 poor seasons, the trajectory is not good at this moment.
In terms of your last point, I think an ultimatum is extreme. That said, should we at least entertain some expectations as we enter Year 4? A resounding yes! Perhaps far fewer penalties, far fewer turnovers, no jump snaps, and better reads by the QB. All of these issues are correctable, and are the responsibility of the coaching staff.
If we are playing "clean" football, the games will get more competitive and we will win our share of those closer games. Amazing that a team like Kansas State, with far less tradition, far fewer resources, and far less talent can play much "cleaner" football and outpace us in wins the last 4 years (25 vs.16), bowl appearances (2 vs. 0) and significant wins (OU Twice).