This ... to some extent.
I think you've got to have a balance of the calm, calculated, non emotional, methodical and the fiery, emotional, in your face motivators. It's why a head coach like Osborne did well with Kiffin, McBride etc. Slow and steady up top - when he got angry or emotional you knew things were bad, but beneath him, dealing with the players one on one were the in your face guys. It's why Bo didn't work - they were all fiery & emotional. Riley's started as all nice - we've improved upon that. So I think we've got that fire with Diaco. I think we've got it with Parella and Coach Dub. I haven't see much of the others on the sidelines (on national tv they typically only show Riley or go to commercial), I'm guessing coach Williams does. Best thing any leader does is surround himself with people who are better than him. He's got to get someone else on that OLine (and I've been a Cav defender until this game).
Did someone talk to Pierson El after the first screwed up punt return? After the second? He should have NEVER been put on the field again for the third after his continued bad decisions. That I put on the coaches. Has someone talked to the lineman about their penalties? After the first one I'd expect that to happen, and then someone gets pulled out after the second. Has someone sat down with Lamar and really discussed what his poor decisions have done for the team? He has mad some pretty big flubs. If there's no ramifications for these errors, if there is no coaching then how can we expect improvements? At the end of the day these are kids, and they are here to be coached and developed - and we should be stoked to see improvements week over week. If we were losing but playing well I don't think the same level of frustration would be apparent in the crowd.
Now to those who say Riley and this staff, "they don't know our culture" "we're smashmouth football" I'd challenge you. I vividly remember how many people complained about the lack of passing game when TO was here. History does funny things to the memory. We look at that time fondly cuz we won - if we'd done so passing you'd be saying Riley doesn't do that enough. If Riley was winning nobody would be saying he is not aware of our "culture".
We like to think we're pretty special - we're not. We love our team and the game, but we are just fans and they are just players. Nebraska is no different than any other program. We have to stop acting like we are.