What would you do if you found out your partner was "Transgender"?

[Enhance]

I don't think a person who leaves a relationship like this should be demonized. Why was the TG not open enough to relay this information before the marriage and even before feelings were shared. That is some pretty inportant info to not divulge. Obviously there should never be violence.

These are my feelings, as well. Something as significant as what gender you are/were should be divulged from the beginning. Not telling the other person is distrustful and wrong. The violence wasn't right, and nobody should be vilified for wanting out of a relationship like that.

 

['SkersRule]

I'll tell you what, if I was dating a trans girl like Jenna Talackova, and she looked like this

Then not only would I continue to date her, I'd ask her to marry me. She's post op and she looks better than half the "real" women out there.

 

[husker B-rent]

Question #1: To me the answer is simple because I am not a homosexual. If a straight dude came up to me and kissed me I would break his nose, same goes if a transgender tricks me into putting the salami in the reconditioned fridge. That may not be cool with some people but to me that is essentially rape (yes i did go there) because I would not have agreed to hide to snake had i known she was a he originally. I know a few homosexual males and they are all actually pretty cool dudes, but everyone knows they are homosexual and they are not being deceitful in fact im having coffee with a few friends right now and one of them is a homosexual. I did vote intense anger and possibly violence because there would definitely be intense anger and like i said i may break their nose and they should expect as much for what they did.

Question #2: You bet your a$$, with this becoming more common of late, that states should be required to disclose the original gender. Even transgender people should agree with this because if they are being honest and open in their relationship they have nothing to hide.