B1GRED said:
There are very few people on this board who, if their life was under the microscope like a college HC is, that wouldn't have skeletons of one variety or another.
If they don't, they have lived their life under a rock.
Red Silk Smoking Jacket said:
Hard to argue with this. Of the top 3 (Saban, Urban, Dabo), all 3 have some pretty well documented character/moral blemishes. Although, also pretty hard to argue that Urban's blemishes aren't worse than the other 2. He comes in a pretty solid third on that list. It all just comes down to where you draw the line on that kind of stuff.
What we’re addressing here are
patterns of incidences occurring. And,
incidences having occurred. There’s a difference.
Disordered personalities can be found anywhere. Few of us are without “skeletons”. Those having closets full of them can be correlated with the toxicity associated with personality disorders.
When I say “disorders” I am referring to the antisocial varieties. They occur on a spectrum of severity from mild to more complex and destructive.
The coaching profession is one example of having a higher percentage of these types of perpetrators. It
isn’t exclusive to highest achievers. It occurs throughout. There certainly can be covert aspects to it depending on the person.
In short, some of the highest achievers have personality disorders while their other high achieving peers don’t.
We all have a dark side. It is upon us to manage it. None of us is without challenges. Some self reflect and consider the consequences of their actions. While others, simply don’t see anything wrong with their behaviors and don’t recognize a need to address them. That’s where there’s a legitimate, particularly concerning issue.
Most of us don’t expect our team’s head coach to be of pristine character. We do however want to avoid patterns of conduct that compromise our interests. Thus, the necessity for thorough examinations of how any particular coaching candidate conducts themselves.
In our case, it seems that an enabler was let go. An alternate was installed to inject accountability and hopefully correct the ship’s course.
Unfortunately it didn’t end well. It didn’t for Joe Paterno either. Lots of folks admired, even revered him too.