BigRedBuster
International Man of Mystery
Calm down tex.....I simply asked a question. I fully understand that racism still exists and quite frankly it pisses me off. I asked my question simply because I had never heard of a dating site being racist...etc.I can only talk about what I have seen in various places, especially in the South, that I have lived. They are my own experiences and my own interpretation of them so I don't want to hear a bunch of s$*t...but what I'm talking about are the super-restrictive dress codes at bars, the members-only clubs and billiards lounges, the massive networks of private schools founded post-brown v. board, the public transportation systems that end just outside of white neighborhoods, white neighborhoods that are kept white with gates and housing authorities and even some things I've seen with police. I'm not some bleeding heart liberal but the de facto segregation and discrimination that exists in this country, at least in the South, is very real.
Racism pisses me off for many reasons. First, because it simply is the dumbest damn thing that someone can waste time and energy on. If someone has time to care about what color someone's skin is, they have way too much time on your hands. If someone is too much of a dip sh#t to hire a minority, GREAT...I'll hire them and gain from the diversity and expertise I can find in that part of the population.
Also, racism pisses me off because I am so sick and tired of being looked at and just assumed I'm racist because I'm a middle aged, white male living in the US. I'm tired of seeing headlines of articles talking about how "even if you aren't racist, you benefit from racism"...bla bla bla..... It's like many in the media think that the way to combat it is..."let's make everyone feel like crap". I'm sick of everything that has to do with racism.