It has been rumored here (Nashville) that he and his wife were getting a divorce, but no papers have been filed. This relationship was not really on the 'DL' to those who knew them. The two of them had been on many vacations together Key West, Vegas and Hawaii. McNair recently bought her an Escalade, and flew her family up to Nashville to celebrate her birthday. At her apartment (different place from where deaths occurred) all of her neighbors were aware that she was dating McNair. McNair's wife has not made a statement.
Sad deal, hopefully this was not behind his wife's back. He was a non-stop giver to this community.