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First off, I haven't had really any luck with girls in the past. My first relationship didn't come until I was a senior in high school and then it only lasted 2 months. The ending to that first one was comical, I was told that she didn't know if she could date me considering I graudate this year (2009), so she sends me an email saying she didn't know if she could take the distance and it wasn't like I was attending college out of state, I was going to attend Metro! I still think to this day that it wasn't the true reason. Now fast forward to September 2010 and I meet my current girlfriend, whom I have never met before in my life until that day we started going out. It was great, I was love struck. However comes this past summer, we did have a break-up that lasted for a week or so. From there it just hasn't been the same. Recently I have been attracted to a girl I work with. However it is just hard to end something that has been going on for three plus years. Some people think i'm just settling and selling myself short for what I can get. I do understand that this is ultimately my decision, however I do need just some people to talk to about this as well. Overall I just think I am afraid to make a move that would change my future. Any comments are appreciated. I really just needed to get this out.