Exactly. I've been saying this for years. People like Ed Cunningham who are more interested in "saving the game" never stop to explain how hits should be made. Likely they don't because if they did, they'd grasp what you're saying, and the debate would necessarily die away. Those on their soapbox rarely stop to think about the mechanics of the hit.
Beebe, of course, handled this atrociously. Rather than waiting a season and a half before taking action on violent hits without prior comment or instruction, he suspends a player for a hit we've found identical (or worse) video on, in what seems to be a wholly reactionary step.
What Beebe should have done was provide an instructional video showing "clean" and "dirty" hits, without ambiguousness, prior to the start of the season. Failing to take proactive steps leaves us with this situation, where each individual team is forced to interpret their games as they see fit.
Five games, folks. Five games and we're out of this two-bit conference.