That is kind of part of the problem. Not changing for the sake of not changing. I mean, it is pretty clear both people are the worst ever at trying to diffuse a situation. They might as well have been yelling "I am not touching you, I am not touching you, I am not touching you" like little kids do in the back seat of a car on a road trip.
If anything, the more video that comes out (there was another really good one today that came out) show even more how most of us (myself included) really rushed to judgment on this.