First, as a fellow newby, I'd like to say welcome to the board, girl. As a guy with a rabid Husker fan for a wife, I feel qualified to say that there can't be too many Husker female fans, so ........... nice to see ya.
Second, I'm not really all that interested in peoples foibles, but I am interested in what becomes of this kid. Wonder if you, or anyone, has heard where he's going next?
Third, don't worry too much about the negative vibes. Revealing personal information about players/former players is a gray area and will usually get some negative feedback. You should do what feels right to you, within the rules of the board.
All is my opinion only, of course. GOBIGRED!