Our future is not in question.
Many now screwed men have said that exact same thing. Either you buy it or she buys it but if you're not married or plan to be married before closing on said house, don't do it as boyfriend girlfriend. Buying a house is extremely stressful in and of itself, not to mention now you're planning remodeling which is another huge stress thing. If you do go as unmarried couple get an attorney involved to draft up some sort of "just in case" type paperwork.I know you mean well, and no offense intended, but I'm not going to go into detail about my relationship in connection to this home purchase. In fact, I intentionally haven't. I'll put something in the OP so people stop referencing it. The steps we feel were necessary to take have been taken in regards to those concerns.