Dude, I like most of your posts and I think you are totally normal compared to most that post here...but think about this for a minute.
You are a regular guy (not an insult), I bet you talk to your parents (assuming they are alive and you have a relationship with them) about things like a lawnmower purchase, car purchase, where to have a family members Bday party...
Right?
Now...you really think that Joe and his son didn't talk about this 80k a month job? You think a father was not looking out for his son? You think him being VP had nothing to do with it? You think there was zero chance that Hunter called his Dad...and they were shooting the s#!t and then talked about this job and Joe said "Hey, it is a good one, take it"
Come on.
Again...NONE OF THIS IS BAD. We would all do it for our kids and our parents would all do it for us. Nepotism doesn't have to be evil.