Without respect for authority we'd have total anarchy... Who's going to take court or the law in general seriously if you could say "f#*k it" and do whatever you wanted without any fear of punishment?
Which is exactly what we do want? A society without rulers. You simply don't understand the definition of anarchy.
Please read Market for Liberty, or just peruse the anarcho-capitalism thread for a wide rage of solutions to what you deem would be a society that could say "f@ck it, without fear of punishment." No, freedom can't happen overnight, but it will happen and when it does the only way to ensure that it holds up is to be educated.
I am fairly well educated and read that book in college in my Poli-Sci 101 class as a freshman... I don't share the author's opinion, nor do I share yours... That doesn't make me uneducated, it's me exercising my freedom to think your opinion sucks. If you don't like that, then I don't know what to tell you.
The system we have has worked for many years. Yes, we desparately needed changes (ie Women/Minority Rights, flush out dirty cops, politicians, etc.)... If you think a government is corrupt then change it.. If you think a police officer or other public official wronged you, then complain...
And no, you shouldn't be able to obstruct an officer's investigation or tell a judge to "eat it" at will... If that were the case, it would be useless to have either of them, as no one would respect authority... It's not about respecting the man, it's about respecting the Law... The Law is what keeps most people on the civil side of the chaos we live in today...