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Sometime youth sports suck. And its soul crushing to see your kid in tears about it.
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This was 4th grade travel basketball tryouts (I know, no big deal in the grand scheme of things).
At the tryout (2 hours long) they use “independent evaluators”, so no one is supposed to know the kids, which is good and bad. Good in that (I hope) it takes away the politics of it. Bad in that there are a lot of people who know these kids and can tell you by a whole body of work who are the best players.
There are 3 kids who got screwed, 2 getting put on the B team (my kid was 1 of them), and 1 getting royally screwed and put on the C team (and I actually feel the worst for him).
The hard part is that these 3 kids were on a house team together last year (no travel in 3rd grade) and won the league with only one game being less than a 10 point margin. Then they played all summer together in 3 on 3 leagues. And just 3 weeks ago they played a team made up of 2 A players and 1 C player and won by 30+ points. And later that night they played another team made up of 3 A players and won by 10+.
We talked to him last night and gave him basically the whole “life isn’t always fair” and “use this as a learning experience” speeches. I’m just hoping at school today there isn’t too much drama with the kids sniping at each other about it.
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