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@ZRod we're looking good for a guy at the top of our recruiting board. An OT. 

Yeah, two pretty big visit announcements just recently. Winning would make the place explode. Could be the perfect setup. 

I believe that number. I think it also helps put this team in context a bit. 

Well darn. I probably would've gone in on this. Silly offer being so far away. 

I mean, could it be that we just have bad talent? If we view performance as the interaction between talent x coaching, we could be seeing what the real problem is this season. 

Does it hurt when you're this wrong? Like, can you feel it in your body?

The best way to think of it is like a slot machine. It's a low density variable schedule of positive reinforcement which is the most addictive pattern of behavior there is. In essence what's going on is every once in awhile the person shows you how good they can be. So the person is perpetually waiting for that to be the long term outcome. This is added on top of things like becoming dependent on the person in a number of ways, plus a depleted social support network due to people becoming frustrated that the abusee is not taking their advice to just leave. As you know, watching this stuff happen to people you like or care about hurts and eventually people distance themselves from it. As such people frequently feel like they only have one person in their life who only they can see the good in and they're just waiting for that person to stay in that good place. 

That's just the simple explanation. As you know, there are layers and layers. 

@tmfr15 Abuse is so much more complicated than that. It would be awesome if it were just about self-worth, but it's a hugely complex and coercive system.  I promise you that it's so much more than "you have value". I say this speaking as a psychologist, not just a fan on a message board. 

Under title IX relationship violence falls under the guidelines of sexual harassment. This applies to all students, faculty, and staff.  See the below link for some basic guidelines. 

https://www.purdue.edu/titleix/complianceGuide/index.html

Krc. That's for elder abuse and neglect. She's a university employee who has title nine obligations. Also depending on the profession mandatory reporting obbligations change. But yes you are generally right. 

As one of my good friends said, how will he ever survive such a vicious wrist slap? 

This seems like one of those binary situations to me. Either he knew or he didn't. No matter what, he and his wife didn't report what they needed to. She's faculty and a mandatory reporter. Urb ignored specified job duties. Just not a great look for them. At some point, we as a country need to start putting people over entertainment. 

Came in to say what Knapp said. Invest in some good shorts. You will thank yourself.